Would you manifest a specific person or the relationship you want?

I’ve been thinking about the difference between manifesting one specific person and manifesting the kind of relationship you actually want. Sometimes those are obviously the same thing. But sometimes I wonder whether focusing so hard on one person can make it harder to notice what the real desire underneath them is. Do you prefer being specific about the person, or specific about the relationship itself? For example, would you focus on “I want this person,” or on feeling chosen, secure, loved, understood, and in a mutual relationship, then let the person part unfold?